Is My Mother a Narcissist? Does it seem like conversations end up being about her?YesSometimesNo Does she have intense friendships that don’t ever seem to last for many years?YesSometimesNo Does she play the victim?YesSometimesNo Is she quick to criticize, yet she reacts strongly when she is criticized?YesSometimesNo Does she need attention or affirmations all the time?YesSometimesNo Does she show she doesn’t understand how you think or feel?YesSometimesNo Does she seem to be frequently involved in “misunderstandings?”YesSometimesNo Does she act hurt or angry when you make decisions without her?YesSometimesNo Does she give you gifts that you don’t want?YesSometimesNo Is she able to let you win (games, disagreements, etc.)?YesSometimesNo Does she act jealous of you?YesSometimesNo Is she easily offended?YesSometimesNo Do you struggle to make decisions about things that involve her?YesSometimesNo Does she compete with you?YesSometimesNo Does your mother make you responsible for her feelings?YesSometimesNo Does your mother do nice things for you only when someone will see it or find out?YesSometimesNo Is your mother controlling or tries to involve herself in nearly every aspect of your life?YesSometimesNo When something difficult happens in your life, does she only talk about how it will impact her?YesSometimesNo Does she frequently have to “one-up” you? (Example: She has the best story, the most significant impact, the most challenging problem, etc.)YesSometimesNo Do you avoid telling her about your feelings and things that happen?YesSometimesNo Do you feel uncomfortable with how your mother talks about you or describes you to others?YesSometimesNo Do you feel she values you more for what you do than who you are?YesSometimesNo Time is Up!